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Santa’s on his way!

In Zett Why on December 21, 2012 at 2:40 pm

I am after some suggestions for a good Christmas present for you! Best of all it’s FREE!!!

My book, “52 Quotes to live by“, will be available for FREE on Dec. 23, 24 & 25! 

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A common mistake | Zett Why

In Happiness on September 10, 2012 at 9:37 am

Exerpt from ebook “52 Quotes to live by

Many repeat the same mistake – and without care for their outer egoism, they try to throw everything away and bury themselves in spiritual pursuits. In this way their suffering becomes worse, because both sides are unsatisfied. Let me explain this in another way. What would a day be like, if you didn’t sleep well the night before? It is the same for your outer egoism. Care for the horse, and the rider will also be satisfied.

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Zett Why | Secret of successful communication

In Wisdom on September 4, 2012 at 2:24 pm

Exerpt from ebook “52 Quotes to live by

When other people try to “correct” you, there’s no need to worry. Every time someone blames you, they blame themselves in principle. If the desire to call someone a fool or egoist comes to you, it’s worth looking in a mirror and asking – what could I do to get rid of such a quality?

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ZETT WHY | Wisdom & experience

In Wisdom, Zett Why on August 28, 2012 at 5:47 am

Exerpt from ebook “52 Quotes to live by

Once I had a possibility to watch a child running around in the park. He was barefoot on the grass. His grandfather was looking after him, and from time to time tried to warn the child to put his sandals on, because there could have been broken glass in the field. The child was ignoring his grandfather’s warnings, and continued running barefoot. A conflict between the two generations was clearly seen.

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ZETT WHY | Conflict is the best teacher

In Here and Now on August 21, 2012 at 6:22 am

Exerpt from ebook “52 Quotes to live by

Conflict is the best communication teacher

Many interesting things happen when we don’t agree with another person’s opinion. We can see two possibilities in a conflict situation. The first – I am angry and despise my opponent. The second – I understand what a fool I am, and try to listen to his opinion closely. If you are practicing the first communication option, it looks like you are a loner with limited amount of friends. With the second option, you are welcome in any company, and surrounded by many friends…

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Zett Why | The main cause of stress

In Life on August 15, 2012 at 5:42 am

Exerpt from ebook “52 Quotes to live by

Many of you will admit that the main cause of our diseases and mental disorders is stress, usually arising from communication with other people. Relationships or interpersonal communication psychology between people is one of the most popular topics in mass media. Family life and professional relations are talked about while considering their various aspects. A lot of advice is given which is denied the next month, and new advice is offered.

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Zett Why | Small talk

In Intelect on August 1, 2012 at 7:20 am

Exerpt from ebook “52 Quotes to live by

When talking to another person, you are actually talking to yourself

An idyllic picture. Two people meet, talk to each other, and separate in a friendly manner. You may say – what’s so special here? But I suggest that you look at this situation a bit closer. If you are unbiased and fair enough, you will notice an interesting thing. When talking to other person, we are actually talking to ourselves.

Whether we want to or not, we think of ourselves as the centre of the universe, also seeing the world only through ourselves. This is especially true in conflict situations. But let’s analyze this at first by asking – why do conflict situations arise in interpersonal communication? The main cause is disagreement in opinions. Now, let’s consider what such a disagreement really means…

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Zett Why | Desire

In Happiness, Zett Why on July 24, 2012 at 11:19 am

Exerpt from ebook “52 Quotes to live by

Which desire is yours?

The biggest problem is that when we think we want something, it’s often difficult to differentiate which desires are ours, and which are imposed by society and our environment. It’s very hard to separate desires created by egoism.

Let’s talk about the main indicators of real desires. When a desire is real, the consciousness is full of a satisfaction that has no burning fire within itself. If you feel increased excitement, the desire has been created by egoism. This excitement usually doesn’t last for long because after that, a clear goal is set, and the desire-goal achievement at any price process begins…

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Zett Why | Constructive criticism

In Intelect, Life on July 10, 2012 at 7:26 am

Exerpt from ebook “52 Quotes to live by

When criticizing, you harm yourself!

Buddhism wisdom says – the lotus blossoms in the marsh. It means that only in facing obstacles do we have an ability to realize our potential. In this article, I would like to talk more about another human quality – being critical.

Looking at it from a psychological view, “constructive” criticism is understood as a mechanism for self-defense and ego affirmation. We denigrate others in order to raise ourselves up in comparison. When you persuade yourself that there is only shit around you, the “golden effect” appears…

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Zett Why | Concentration

In Zett Why on July 2, 2012 at 1:32 pm

Exerpt from ebook “52 Quotes to live by

Concentration chains

I think that it’s the fault of the person. People have chosen the way of intellect as their main guiding process. We can see different stages of human development in history where we didn’t have any intellectual dictation. For instance, our intellectually created science still can’t explain how the Pyramids were built, how Jesus managed to walk on water, and many other things. But all these miracles are easily untangled, if we don’t try to understand them through intellect. Logic here is powerless – absolutely other laws are at work here…

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